Relationships are PERSONAL GROWTH incubators. They are meant to CHALLENGE us, NOT CODDLE us into accepting COMFORTABLE, SUBMISSIVE, UNCREATIVE, and STAGNANT waters where NOTHING moves! Yin and Yang are necessary for CREATION to occur. . It is ONLY when a CONTRASTING belief hits us, that we are forced to re-evaluate our own PLACE of being. … More The TRUE power that ALL relationships wield, is their ability to TARGET and CHALLENGE our most TREASURED beliefs. How else would we EVOLVE?
What STORIES do you keep telling yourself, OVER and OVER again? Are you constantly REINFORCING the thoughts and fears and the REALITY that you are simply PRESENTLY experiencing? It is time to get UNSTUCK. Try SHIFTING your perspective literally to looking up,just above your typical site line and THEN, CONSCIOUSLY CREATE a new thought. Tell yourself a … More Start laying NEW tracks for your life to TRAVEL upon.
Wherever we have walked or talked or SHARED a thought, we leave a trail behind us. As we wander through the hallways and experiences of LIFE each day, we TOUCH and FEEL the textures of life’s challenges, and leave our own IMPRESSIONS and INTERPRETATIONS of those experiences behind. As we CHOOSE to be kind, loving … More A day well lived is one in which we have left ‘Heart Prints’ behind. . Mel Morfitt
What if WE were supposed to ALLOW our HIGHER NATURE to guide our journey? . What if TRYING to BE something only took us further AWAY from the journey that was DESTINED to DELIGHT all of our senses? . When we TRUST and ALLOW our AUTHENTIC nature to FLOW from within our soul, we JOIN … More A WATERFALL only EXISTS because each droplet of water has already ALLOWED itself to be GUIDED to a GREATER PURPOSE of which it isn’t even AWARE of. This is ALSO how RAINBOWS are born – through TRUST.
…AND if they are NOT facing the same DIRECTION, there will be a TUG-OF WAR happening in your life where NOTHING flows easily! . As I have planted the seeds to GROW my own NLP business, I have noticed mini PANICK attacks each time I see a seed beautifully SPROUT. What the HECK! This is … More Your UNCONSCIOUS Self is EQUALLY AS STRONG as your CONSCIOUS Self!…
…and allow OTHERS the GIFT of BEING that for themselves! I am a recovering ENABLER. I have been guilty of OFFERING a starving soul a plateful of FISH, instead of ALLOWING him to LEARN how to fish, for HIMSELF. If I feed him, he then thinks that I AM THE WAY, instead of realizing that … More BE Someone Who Makes You Happy!
All around us and within us, CHANGE is CONSTANT. SOLID moves into LIQUID…, THOUGHT moves into FORM… and WE move from UNCONSCIOUS into CONSCIOUS beings. . Awareness of SELF is a process. Like an infant discovering the DELICIOUSNESS and WONDER of its own FINGERS and TOES, we TOO, continue to discover extremities and ABILITIES that are a PART … More MELT those SOLID beliefs into NEW POSSIBILITES!
Whether you are meditating and hear that devious, judgmental INNER VOICE, or you get triggered in DAILY LIFE by a similar VOICE that materializes as a FACEBOOK MESSAGE, or that GUY’S COMMENT in the store, it is still ALL ‘Monkey Mind’. The other day someone commented on a Linked-In message I sent out, and their … More Monkey Mind Can Be ANYWHERE!
I have to admit that this philosophy is VERY new for me, but PRACTICING it has been MIND BLOWING! I FINALLY find myself IN the WATER actually SWIMMING, instead of caught in a whirlpool of PARALYSIS of ANALYSIS! I launched my WEBSITE and my NLP business, and my SPARKLES of LIFE blog BEFORE I had … More Just SWIM! You DO NOT Have To Have ALL Your Ducks In a Row FIRST.
Last night I decided to use a little NLP on myself. (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) I used a technique known as PERCEPTUAL POSITIONS . In my mind’s eye I STEPPED BACK to observe myself as a person outside of myself in what would be called THIRD POSITION. I wanted to get a clearer perception of who this … More What if you were already PERFECT and COMPLETE!